WE HAVE TOXIC PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES

Toxic people are those who drain us mentally and emotionally and sabotage our time and energy.

They want all the attention without any responsibility, accountability, or awareness of the consequences. We don’t enjoy or look forward to spending time with them, and they don’t support us. Yet we believe we must have them in our lives, even though they can sabotage us achieving and living our Best Life.

There are 7 main types of toxic people. Some people are chameleons and can be more than one type.

1. Drama King / Queen

• Something is always wrong
• Always complaining
• When one problem is solved, they immediately have another
• Thrives on a crisis because it gets them attention and makes them feel important
• Only wants your sympathy and support
• Doesn’t want your advice or solutions
• Doesn’t actually want to fix anything
• Always involves other people in their drama.

2. The Fatalist

• Talks down to you to make themselves feel better
• Only cares about themselves and always puts themselves first – no one is their equal
• Never gives you a compliment
• Considers their opinion to be fact and should therefore be accepted as fact
• Believes they are smarter than everyone else
• Doesn’t take anyone elses feelings, ideas, opinions or perspectives into account
• Tries to talk you out of your dreams.

3. The Vampire

• Drains you of mental and emotional energy
• Focuses on the negative
• Never sees or accepts the positives
• Brings you down with them
• Can’t / won’t be happy for you
• Makes you feel tense
• Puts you down for no reason
• Can’t be happy for other peoples good fortune.

4. The Green-Eyed Critic

• Can’t be happy for anyone
• Doesn’t support you in your dreams or decisions
• Criticises and judges every move you make
• Makes you feel like you can’t do anything right
• Gossips – about anyone, to anyone.

5. The Puppeteer

• Tries to control everything, including you
• Wants to make every decision for you – what you say, what you do, what you think
• Doesn’t like it when you disagree with them
• Tries to convince you they’re right, know what’s best, and you should do what they tell you to do
• Pretends to like you so they can control you.

6. The Victim

• Blames other people / circumstances for their misfortune or mistakes
• Doesn’t take any responsibility for their situation
• Talks mostly about their excuses for failing.

7. The Fake / Liar

• Will tell big and little lies
• You can’t trust anything they say / are unreliable
• Gives you fake compliments
• Lacks empathy
• Puts you in uncomfortable positions.

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